Comments on: The Two Day Rule…. http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/ The life Of Shopa Sun, 12 Oct 2008 19:42:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: Purgatory http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15734 Purgatory Sun, 04 May 2008 14:33:01 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15734 two days is too short. two days is too short.

]]> By: Hasan.B http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15735 Hasan.B Sun, 04 May 2008 14:55:03 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15735 After a breakup you should not be thinking I need someone else sooner or later. Just live normally After a breakup you should not be thinking I need someone else sooner or later. Just live normally

]]> By: chikapappi http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15736 chikapappi Sun, 04 May 2008 15:21:02 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15736 I think a break is required bas also some of us girls tend to go down this spiral of guilt as you mentioned OOOORRRRR develop this hate for men e7em e7em that's hard to avoid and it's becomes so hard to let anyone new in you know.. it's not upto the girl alone, a guy has to be smart to win her heart over :) I think a break is required bas also some of us girls tend to go down this spiral of guilt as you mentioned OOOORRRRR develop this hate for men e7em e7em that’s hard to avoid and it’s becomes so hard to let anyone new in you know.. it’s not upto the girl alone, a guy has to be smart to win her heart over :)

]]> By: Zabo0o6a http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15737 Zabo0o6a Sun, 04 May 2008 15:23:28 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15737 One thing u should have in mind after a breakup is the other side suffering as you are now? does he/she thinking of you the way you are thinking about them ? or they moved on like nothing happened ? if they moved on then you should do the same as well One thing u should have in mind after a breakup is the other side suffering as you are now? does he/she thinking of you the way you are thinking about them ? or they moved on like nothing happened ?
if they moved on then you should do the same as well

]]> By: Delicately Realistic http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15739 Delicately Realistic Sun, 04 May 2008 19:58:14 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15739 The time in between relationships is not cuz ur in denial and deep down inside u think ur gonna get back together. Hell no ! Reasons are : - to get ur priorities straight - to analyse what went wrong - what mistakes u made - what mistakes the other party made - how u can stop urself from making the same wrong choices/decisions in the future - to build up ur inner peace (serenity) ;P - to let ur wounds heal, ur ego, ur self esteem...all that was damaged during and leading up to the dreaded 'Break Up' - to realise that being single and away from that person isnt the end of the world and that its great fun being single and free! That said....dont make the mistake of thinking that all the above are only possible while wallowing in bed listening to sad songs and crying....bil 3aks....u can do all these things...and enjoy ur own company....ur friends company....doing the things u love...basically enjoying ur life ....BUT...... AWAY FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX Why u ask ? Because if u get back into the game too soon, the chances that u will make the same mistake(s) are very very very highly likely. I know what ur gonna say....."Nooooo im not gonna get into anything serious....its just a little harmless flirtation" Theres no such thing as harmless flirtation !!! One thing always leads to another !!! AAAAAAHHHH La tkhaleeeeni ayeee baitkom o azni6ich !! The time in between relationships is not cuz ur in denial and deep down inside u think ur gonna get back together. Hell no !

Reasons are :

- to get ur priorities straight
- to analyse what went wrong
- what mistakes u made
- what mistakes the other party made
- how u can stop urself from making the same wrong choices/decisions in the future
- to build up ur inner peace (serenity) ;P
- to let ur wounds heal, ur ego, ur self esteem…all that was damaged during and leading up to the dreaded ‘Break Up’
- to realise that being single and away from that person isnt the end of the world and that its great fun being single and free!

That said….dont make the mistake of thinking that all the above are only possible while wallowing in bed listening to sad songs and crying….bil 3aks….u can do all these things…and enjoy ur own company….ur friends company….doing the things u love…basically enjoying ur life

….BUT……

AWAY FROM THE OPPOSITE SEX

Why u ask ?

Because if u get back into the game too soon, the chances that u will make the same mistake(s) are very very very highly likely.

I know what ur gonna say…..”Nooooo im not gonna get into anything serious….its just a little harmless flirtation”

Theres no such thing as harmless flirtation !!! One thing always leads to another !!!

AAAAAAHHHH

La tkhaleeeeni ayeee baitkom o azni6ich !!

]]> By: Exceer http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15740 Exceer Sun, 04 May 2008 20:24:13 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15740 Shopa! i cant even comment i will be too biased ! "i can see why you are my best buddy" !!!!!! for this piece i say :: i love you i love you i love you and i am so on with the rule :-D Zaboo6a: most of the times the break-up comes from their actions or sayings,, if they were to suffer wouldnt it be better to call up and fix things rather than mourn it!!!! Delicately: trust me in some situations THERE IS "strictly flirtation only" cos WE are the ones who decide if it should go further than that or not... thats my opinion from my humble experience ;-) Shopa!
i cant even comment i will be too biased !
“i can see why you are my best buddy” !!!!!!

for this piece i say ::

i love you i love you i love you and i am so on with the rule :-D
Zaboo6a:
most of the times the break-up comes from their actions or sayings,, if they were to suffer wouldnt it be better to call up and fix things rather than mourn it!!!!

Delicately:
trust me in some situations THERE IS “strictly flirtation only” cos WE are the ones who decide if it should go further than that or not… thats my opinion from my humble experience ;-)

]]> By: Big Pearls http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15742 Big Pearls Mon, 05 May 2008 04:09:24 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15742 hmm just stay alive..and do what u feel like doing lool hmm just stay alive..and do what u feel like doing lool

]]> By: Intlxpatr http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15743 Intlxpatr Mon, 05 May 2008 04:14:55 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15743 Good luck with a 2 - Day Rule. I think it just takes what it takes. We need time to gather up the shattered pieces, figuring out which pieces are mine and which are his and which are circumstantial, sorting through those pieces (as DR said, giving it some thought and evaluation.) When you can hear a song (any song!) without falling apart again, then you are ready for the next relationship. The break-ups teach us a lot about ourselves, and what we DON'T want. They make us better, stronger. Give yourself time to heal, to reintegrate. Interesting - a serious response from Purg. Good luck with a 2 - Day Rule. I think it just takes what it takes. We need time to gather up the shattered pieces, figuring out which pieces are mine and which are his and which are circumstantial, sorting through those pieces (as DR said, giving it some thought and evaluation.)

When you can hear a song (any song!) without falling apart again, then you are ready for the next relationship.

The break-ups teach us a lot about ourselves, and what we DON’T want. They make us better, stronger. Give yourself time to heal, to reintegrate.

Interesting - a serious response from Purg.

]]> By: Chirp http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15746 Chirp Mon, 05 May 2008 05:59:16 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15746 two days is waay to short. A week might be good, but it also depends on how close the ppl where to each other. two days is waay to short. A week might be good, but it also depends on how close the ppl where to each other.

]]> By: Yazeed http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15747 Yazeed Mon, 05 May 2008 07:01:57 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/05/04/the-two-day-rule/#comment-15747 I hereby issue the following decree: This 2 day rule will from now on be known as, <b>The Shopa Rule.</b> Wa Salamatkom. I hereby issue the following decree:

This 2 day rule will from now on be known as, The Shopa Rule.

Wa Salamatkom.

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