Her: Don’t you miss me?
Him: Lol…Yes…I do.
Her: What’s so funny?
Him: I was cheacking your profile when you sent the msg…For some reason I laughed.
Her: Stalker…
Him: You pissed me off..But…Lol..
Her: Why?
Him: The status stuff.
Her: What about it?
Him: That’s mainly why I didn’t call you.
Her: You wanted to call me?
Him: Yes…I “thought” of calling.
Her: Why didn’t you call?
Him: I was pissed.
Him: Well, it was a bad idea to call you back then…Just like it was a bad idea to call you the last time.
Her: Why?
Him: I wasn’t ready to talk…and you wanted answers.
Her: So you bullshitted me?
Him: I DID NOT…I told you what I really felt…It didn’t make sense because I couldn’t make sense of any of it.
Her: I really like what “we” had…I am sorry “Us” didn’t work out…
Him: Me too…
Her: Inside of me there is a tiny bit of a hope…
Him: Hope for what?
Her: For “Us” to work…
Him: I wish I was as optimistic as you are…
Her: You know what’s really funny?
Him: What?
Her: I was kind of “talking/seeing” someone…Yet every time he calls, I think of you….Every time he msgs me, I wish it was you…
Him:When were you “talking/seeing” someone?
Her: Last week….and until I just msged you
Her: I miss you terribly…
Him: For the first time in my life I wanted to die after I hung up the phone with you..But life goes on I guess…and people forget..
Her: If you wanted to die…and I almost died out of depression and tears then why can’t we be together?
Him: I wanted to die because I felt like shit the way I treated you at the end…And I’m sorry for that but I don’t see us together now or in the future..
Her: Was is it something I did?
Him: No.
Her: Was it all an act what you said and did?
Him: FUCK!! I had a choice to end the relationship now or later..Because it hit me…It got serious in a way I never had…Usually when I’m serious with someone I know what I want to do or where I want to go…This time I didn’t know any of this..I freaked out..I didn’t want to lead you and go on the way we were and leave you down the road when I freaking know were the hell I am..
Her: I wish you ended it later..That I was expecting…ending it now, I never expected..This is why it hurt me bad…
Him: I’m sorry I did…I didn’t want to be “the guy who used me & left”…I’m so sorry..
Her: I wish you were one of those “A$$” guys…
Him: This is the hardest thing I’ve done in my life..and of all the people in the world..I did not want to hurt you..I know this will not mean anything to you but I’m really sorry..
Her: I am in need for you to hold my hands…Take me in your arms..Give me a big hug… Kiss me…
Him: Ok..
Her: OK what?
Him: The last part.
Her: I really meant it…
Him: I really mean it…
Her: Can I come over?
Him: Yes…
Him: Where are you?
Her: Home…
Him: are you coming?
Her: I want to..
Him: Aha…
Her: Give me 20 minutes.
Him: Don’t! Talk to you tomorrow…Good night.
Her: Good night
what exactely was that?! 5arabe6!
LONG!
You talked slow ha ;p
This was too pathetic and thats I believe it was not you!
girl got no pride…its erased from her personality?
he’s an idiot
Actually.. I was in a very similar situation a few years back, except I was in this guys position. The guy I knew loved me a LOT and was even talking about marriage once we graduated.. I knew I didn’t want to marry him and I just didn’t feel the same way about him (even though I liked him), so I ended it. Told him he deserves someone who would love him back..
WHAT! i dnt like him :*
No, this guy isn’t an idiot. And she isn’t a girl who has no pride. What this is, is sad. A case of two people being in two different places at the same time. Not ready.
The two of them are misakeen. From what I gather from this transcript or conversation, they are two who care - no, love- each other very much, but the guy is very scared and feels he has no control over whatever was happening to him. Not control over HER, but over HIMSELF, and he isn’t someone who is used to handling shaky ground or not being sure of things in his life. He’s one of those who tries to follow “the plan”. He would probably prefer to be with someone he didn’t love as much or didn’t love at all, but the relationship made logical sense to him and fit in with his idea of how things are supposed to go according to “the plan” again. This is just emotional underdevelopment in my view. He likely has a decent heart and truly seems to be trying to be honest, but whatever his reasons are, he cannot handle this intensity of feeling and such a relationship with this girl at this point in his life… The man just is not ready and has another idea of how things are supposed to be in his mind.
To me, guys like this have the makings of decent men and human beings, but it will take a lot of time, hard knocks and lots of life punching them in the gut and slapping them around before they make the realization and hopefully make the next jump to another level of understanding and maturity about what loving someone really is. If they want to, that is. Not everyone wants to change or understand. Real love is about taking a huge calculated chance, a huge risk because you care and believe in someone enough. About realizing that nothing can ever really be controlled, nothing in life is ever on solid ground and nothing is ever really known about what will happen. It’s the not knowing for these people - the unknown that frightens this kind of person. Love scares them. They may not really want real love itself, just the pretend kind. It’s best to let them find their way on their own. Life has a way of giving us opportunities to learn what we need to know, and of giving second or third chances after things come crashing down….
My advice to the girl would be to not let this get any messier for her sake. Don’t go see him, don’t touch him, don’t talk to him. It will be hard and she must accept she will suffer. But it’s time to let go. he’s probably a good guy and He will always love her, not that that does her any good - in fact, that might make it worse right now. I won’t repeat the cliched old line that there is someone out there for her who will love her etc etc (which is true), but I will tell her that most of the time, not everyone gets to be with their soul-mate or the one that they really love - even when the love is mutual. Life sucks sometimes and all you can do is put your head down and run straight headlong into and against the wind because there just isn’t any other way to go…
But she will be ok and it will all be better soon. Bit by bit. She will see :*
?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!!!!!!
Im confused now !
Is this b4 or after u msged me ?!
I get one thing, the girls is in love deeply, and the guy is totally confused.
well, i know that situation *by heart* i think the saying (Been There, Done That..etc) fits in this situation, except i was more like an a$$h0le than Confused.
my advice, let go.
Its hard to let go isnt it.
Heart wrenching to be in that kind of situation
akheh 3lehaaa!!
kewl