Comments on: Insecure Wives… http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/ The life Of Shopa Fri, 21 Nov 2008 14:18:15 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1.2 By: كله مطقوق http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10212 كله مطقوق Wed, 20 Feb 2008 09:00:52 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10212 maybe ur look at the husband sends the MINE MINE MINE msg to the wife:) maybe ur look at the husband sends the MINE MINE MINE msg to the wife:)

]]> By: shopa http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10214 shopa Wed, 20 Feb 2008 09:55:53 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10214 She is not that stupid to get that msg She is not that stupid to get that msg

]]> By: fashionated http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10217 fashionated Wed, 20 Feb 2008 10:34:52 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10217 i blame u really..u and ur mischievous looks :P i blame u really..u and ur mischievous looks :P

]]> By: Purgatory http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10218 Purgatory Wed, 20 Feb 2008 10:36:11 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10218 Yeah your look, that is why. Yeah your look, that is why.

]]> By: Big Pearls http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10223 Big Pearls Wed, 20 Feb 2008 11:23:06 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10223 Maybe she just likes holding her husband's arms..at the end of the day, it's her husband. Maybe she just likes holding her husband’s arms..at the end of the day, it’s her husband.

]]> By: Hasan.B http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10224 Hasan.B Wed, 20 Feb 2008 11:36:27 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10224 "A friend says maybe women do those things to make us, poor single women, jealous" That could not be true, It is simple women love their husbands, at least most of them do, they have some jealousy. Thats only normal. The women did not do anything wrong in that story, she did not make a scene, she just hold her husband, which is also a normal thing to do. The husband in the other hand, has to either tell her; that these are my friends and I have to say hi, or accept his wife's wishes and not say hello even when she is not around! In summary, it is the husbands fault! “A friend says maybe women do those things to make us, poor single women, jealous” That could not be true, It is simple women love their husbands, at least most of them do, they have some jealousy. Thats only normal. The women did not do anything wrong in that story, she did not make a scene, she just hold her husband, which is also a normal thing to do. The husband in the other hand, has to either tell her; that these are my friends and I have to say hi, or accept his wife’s wishes and not say hello even when she is not around! In summary, it is the husbands fault!

]]> By: pearls http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10226 pearls Wed, 20 Feb 2008 12:46:05 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10226 It's chicken of him to say hello when his wife is not around and pretend he doesn't see you when he's with her, if I were you I'd do the same thing, ignore him It’s chicken of him to say hello when his wife is not around and pretend he doesn’t see you when he’s with her, if I were you I’d do the same thing, ignore him

]]> By: EniGma http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10229 EniGma Wed, 20 Feb 2008 14:40:48 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10229 Jealousy and possessiveness.. Is she a Taurus? Jealousy and possessiveness.. Is she a Taurus?

]]> By: Eschew Obfuscation http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10230 Eschew Obfuscation Wed, 20 Feb 2008 14:48:38 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10230 You seem to have a lot of drama and resolved issues with this girl/wife/arm-holder :) You seem to have a lot of drama and resolved issues with this girl/wife/arm-holder :)

]]> By: ??? http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10238 ??? Wed, 20 Feb 2008 19:55:32 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10238 I know what you're going through. It is just unacceptable in our culture for members of the opposite sex to communicate. What you should do is just smile when you see him without his wife and try to pass by quickly so as to prevent him from having the chance to say hi. And when you see them together you should just smile to them collectively when you see them but you should greet his wife as if she was your best friend but keep it snappy. But if she's obnoxious then you should avoid them all together. I know what you’re going through. It is just unacceptable in our culture for members of the opposite sex to communicate. What you should do is just smile when you see him without his wife and try to pass by quickly so as to prevent him from having the chance to say hi.

And when you see them together you should just smile to them collectively when you see them but you should greet his wife as if she was your best friend but keep it snappy. But if she’s obnoxious then you should avoid them all together.

]]> By: q http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10239 q Wed, 20 Feb 2008 20:09:48 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10239 "I am unfamiliar with the “wife” feeling yet" evidently u would die alone as no one is interested in a serious relationship with u. guys could have u for days and the a friend says why to buy a cow if u get the milk for free? “I am unfamiliar with the “wife” feeling yet”

evidently u would die alone as no one is interested in a serious relationship with u. guys could have u for days and the a friend says why to buy a cow if u get the milk for free?

]]> By: Laialy_q8 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10240 Laialy_q8 Wed, 20 Feb 2008 20:15:09 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10240 women are complicated ... who knows the reason why ... i couldn't even come up with a good reason of why i would or wouldn't do such a thing ma agool elaa allah e3een el reyayeel women are complicated … who knows the reason why … i couldn’t even come up with a good reason of why i would or wouldn’t do such a thing

ma agool elaa allah e3een el reyayeel

]]> By: Delicately Realistic http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10242 Delicately Realistic Wed, 20 Feb 2008 21:13:52 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10242 theyre just insecure ! i hate it even more when the girl is y friend and she pretends she doesnt see me and quickly whisks hubby away ! shda3wa?! if we exchange hello's, hes gonna see me and fall in love with me and leave her ?!? 7mdillah o ilshkr ! theyre just insecure !

i hate it even more when the girl is y friend and she pretends she doesnt see me and quickly whisks hubby away !

shda3wa?!

if we exchange hello’s, hes gonna see me and fall in love with me and leave her ?!?

7mdillah o ilshkr !

]]> By: Ms. Baker http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10274 Ms. Baker Thu, 21 Feb 2008 19:47:49 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10274 Something tells me you are one smart and very cool girl. It may not just be personal insecurity that is the issue here for the wife. It may be insecurity with the relationship or the marriage itself. And believe me, it probably ain't just you she is like this with. I say this often enough in my real life, so I might as well say it again here: marriage is only the start of the toughest look at yourself you will ever have to take. Marriage isnt a destination, it is only the beginning of the most complicated thing you may ever TRY to do. The marriage you choose for yourself and make is a reflection of what you think of yourself as a person. You may fail at it, you may succeed. But that in a nutshell, is what it is for me. Ana laysh ri7t ibwadee b3eed 3an mowthoo3ich? Something tells me you are one smart and very cool girl.

It may not just be personal insecurity that is the issue here for the wife. It may be insecurity with the relationship or the marriage itself. And believe me, it probably ain’t just you she is like this with.

I say this often enough in my real life, so I might as well say it again here: marriage is only the start of the toughest look at yourself you will ever have to take. Marriage isnt a destination, it is only the beginning of the most complicated thing you may ever TRY to do. The marriage you choose for yourself and make is a reflection of what you think of yourself as a person.

You may fail at it, you may succeed. But that in a nutshell, is what it is for me.

Ana laysh ri7t ibwadee b3eed 3an mowthoo3ich?

]]> By: G http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10275 G Thu, 21 Feb 2008 20:39:48 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10275 To me i think there several reasons: 1. She thinks that she is not attractive. 2. I think she doesn't want her husband to even eye contact another women. or If it only happens when you meet by coincidence she saw her husband treating you a bit deferent. there are other reasons but it always depends on a specific thing that triggers these events to happen. To me i think there several reasons:

1. She thinks that she is not attractive.
2. I think she doesn’t want her husband to even eye contact another women.

or

If it only happens when you meet by coincidence she saw her husband treating you a bit deferent.

there are other reasons but it always depends on a specific thing that triggers these events to happen.

]]> By: judy Abbott http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10284 judy Abbott Fri, 22 Feb 2008 06:32:31 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10284 aah sometimes i wish if i can stand up to those women and give them a look of "uuuuh why on earth i want to be with him" or something.. i think those women are shame to stupidity .. they are CRAZY! and the worst when they give you that saying "9adegatny o khathat rayle.. or what ever that saying is" aah sometimes i wish if i can stand up to those women and give them a look of “uuuuh why on earth i want to be with him” or something..
i think those women are shame to stupidity .. they are CRAZY!
and the worst when they give you that saying “9adegatny o khathat rayle.. or what ever that saying is”

]]> By: Alia http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10286 Alia Fri, 22 Feb 2008 07:03:15 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10286 as a "wife" I don't really care if he talks to her in front of me or behind my back, coz I know my man & i trust him, otherwise i wouldn't marry him so yes .. i totally agree with you .. it is insecurity & I bet you're much prettier, so forgive her :) as a “wife” I don’t really care if he talks to her in front of me or behind my back, coz I know my man & i trust him, otherwise i wouldn’t marry him

so yes .. i totally agree with you .. it is insecurity

& I bet you’re much prettier, so forgive her :)

]]> By: Fadidra http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10291 Fadidra Fri, 22 Feb 2008 14:09:08 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10291 women like her make me sick!! abaaaaaii shda3wa makoo ila ohwa bil dinya? mama calm down. some "wife's" have a problem with themselves and not believing that they can keep a man LOL their stupid in a weird way. women like her make me sick!! abaaaaaii shda3wa makoo ila ohwa bil dinya?
mama calm down. some “wife’s” have a problem with themselves and not believing that they can keep a man LOL their stupid in a weird way.

]]> By: newbride http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10329 newbride Sat, 23 Feb 2008 15:55:26 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10329 poor girl walah maskeena i meet my friends once in marina mall and i introduced my husband to them and he said hi o 3adee kaan elwathe3 next day one of them called me and she is married she told how could u do that ??!?!? shloon tkhaleena ysalem 3laa refejatich !!! so ???????? el elwa7ed ygool el7mdelaah welshker poor girl walah maskeena

i meet my friends once in marina mall and i introduced my husband to them and he said hi o 3adee kaan elwathe3

next day one of them called me and she is married she told how could u do that ??!?!? shloon tkhaleena ysalem 3laa refejatich !!!

so ???????? el

elwa7ed ygool el7mdelaah welshker

]]> By: Touché http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10333 Touché Sat, 23 Feb 2008 22:53:14 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10333 So if a guy cares for his wife’s wishes and avoids annoying her in any way is considered a coward? The arm grabbing a normal reaction and no conspiracy about it, it is if the look on her face says so and her eyes speak “He is mine”. So if a guy cares for his wife’s wishes and avoids annoying her in any way is considered a coward?

The arm grabbing a normal reaction and no conspiracy about it, it is if the look on her face says so and her eyes speak “He is mine”.

]]> By: Daddy's Girl http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10650 Daddy's Girl Wed, 05 Mar 2008 08:42:36 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10650 Hmmm i dont know the extent of your past relation with the guy but he obviously still has a thing for you or why else would he want to come an say hi even with his wife? Even though he ended with his wife in the end she might feel inah when he sees you and wants to say hi it means he is not over you and she his wife was never his first choice ... it might resemble "his regret" for marrying her... do not blame her maskeena for sending you he is mine msg oho mafrooth inah laman yeshoofich he ignores u for her sake y3ni the least he can do... mo yay besalim 3leech o mortah yammah... do you blame a woman with a husband that is sooo insensitive for being insecure... Imagine if the tables were around, if she saw her ex o jumped "baroo7 asalm 3leeh" shino beseer feeh? beyertha? 6b3an la... o in retha beybar6m o yez3al o ye6anger like a big baby! Ama 3n salfat if im married o i see my friends while im out with my husband so i run away... hatha yesamonah 3aba6 insecurities... itha ana mo wathqa min nafsi wala min rayle ish7aqa a6l3 wyah? shino beseer beyshofha o yehedne for her? 3yal chithee beyakheth kil banat il q8! mind you... my own cousin, my own flesh and blood, my soul mate, had my mother and my sisters alllll kicked out of her house after her malcha as in "her husband wouldnt see us o marry us or have his brother marry us" with the blessings of her mom... if we had known, we wouldnt have wasted 20 years of our lives with them... now that is called insecure... Hmmm i dont know the extent of your past relation with the guy but he obviously still has a thing for you or why else would he want to come an say hi even with his wife? Even though he ended with his wife in the end she might feel inah when he sees you and wants to say hi it means he is not over you and she his wife was never his first choice … it might resemble “his regret” for marrying her… do not blame her maskeena for sending you he is mine msg oho mafrooth inah laman yeshoofich he ignores u for her sake y3ni the least he can do… mo yay besalim 3leech o mortah yammah… do you blame a woman with a husband that is sooo insensitive for being insecure…

Imagine if the tables were around, if she saw her ex o jumped “baroo7 asalm 3leeh” shino beseer feeh? beyertha? 6b3an la… o in retha beybar6m o yez3al o ye6anger like a big baby!

Ama 3n salfat if im married o i see my friends while im out with my husband so i run away… hatha yesamonah 3aba6 insecurities… itha ana mo wathqa min nafsi wala min rayle ish7aqa a6l3 wyah? shino beseer beyshofha o yehedne for her? 3yal chithee beyakheth kil banat il q8! mind you… my own cousin, my own flesh and blood, my soul mate, had my mother and my sisters alllll kicked out of her house after her malcha as in “her husband wouldnt see us o marry us or have his brother marry us” with the blessings of her mom… if we had known, we wouldnt have wasted 20 years of our lives with them… now that is called insecure…

]]> By: Touché http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10741 Touché Sat, 08 Mar 2008 20:47:53 +0000 http://www.shopaq8eya.com/2008/02/20/insecure-wives/#comment-10741 >> Daddy’s Girl That girl got some BIG issues and need to loosen up her screws. >> Daddy’s Girl

That girl got some BIG issues and need to loosen up her screws.

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