There Is Always A “BUT”…..

He is a very nice guy, smart, and okay looking. We spent the whole hour talking non-stop BUT; and there is always a BUT, something doesn’t feel right.

K says it’s just me not ready, which might be true.

The big question now is, how do I let him go nicely?

Dear God, help me! I’m bad in those things.

13 Responses to “There Is Always A "BUT".....”


  1. 1 Yazeed Feb 4th, 2008 at 1:05 pm

    hmmmmmmm

  2. 2 كله مطقوق Feb 4th, 2008 at 1:25 pm

    hire someone to kill him

    and

    no , i am not willing to do that for u:P

  3. 3 Purgatory Feb 4th, 2008 at 1:46 pm

    قلعتج، مـا تسمعين كلامي، كل من هب و دب قليتله يس

    عمي بعين هل اليس، وخري عنهم و خليج بعيد عن الهب و جابلي الدب (بالضمة) ;p

  4. 4 shopa Feb 4th, 2008 at 3:28 pm

    Yazeed,
    I know…So “HMmmmm”

    Ma6goog,
    LOL
    لا حرام ما يستاههل
    BUT; and there is always a but (LOL), if you know someone who would do it, I have someone that needs to be killed ASAP

    Purg,
    الدب (بالضمة) مادرى عني
    وبعدين مو كل من هب ودب قلناله “يس”

  5. 5 EniGma Feb 4th, 2008 at 4:54 pm

    use the word “friend” a lot

  6. 6 Purgatory Feb 4th, 2008 at 10:21 pm

    انزين، المتردية و النطيحة،

    in english, every guy who smiles.

  7. 7 pink Feb 5th, 2008 at 4:27 am

    ouch! thats why im not into starting a new thing cuz i decide to end it quick and i dont knw how!! and it ALWAYS turn out bad :(

  8. 8 shopa Feb 5th, 2008 at 7:26 am

    EniGma,
    I am using it already but he doesn’t want to get it.

    Purg,
    stop spredaing rumors on me. It’s ot true

    Pink,
    That’s the problem. I don’t want it to turn bad, not this time

  9. 9 Laialy_q8 Feb 5th, 2008 at 12:37 pm

    kinda give him the impression that you like someone else … or maybe that you like females LOL that would be a hoot

  10. 10 feelingstalk Feb 5th, 2008 at 1:27 pm

    well .. so easy be honest and say ur bla bla bla
    BUT am not ready :)

    Truth is the KEY
    Easy face ur fears and say NO

  11. 11 shopa Feb 5th, 2008 at 4:02 pm

    Laialy,
    I pulled the “I’m gay” thing once on a guy. LOL

    This one, I can’t. He knows am not

    feelingstalk,
    truth is hard when you don’t know what is the truth

  12. 12 EniGma Feb 6th, 2008 at 5:58 pm

    mention the word gay and he’ll have 3some fantasies with u in them!! I say don’t hahaha

  13. 13 Ms. Baker Feb 11th, 2008 at 12:18 pm

    The real question here is: are you sure you want to let him go? I am not interested in making a case for him, but rather in making a case for you. And for you finding your own answers to this question - as well as your own conviction that these are the right answers for you. Don’t let it be a nebulous thing that you cannot explain.

    Why is it that you want to let him go? What is it that doesn’t feel right for you about him? What is it that is making you feel this way? Is it actually you or is it in fact him, or is it the mismatch of you and him together? Sometimes you can take two lovely people and think they make a great couple, but the mix just does not work.

    If it’s not there with him, it’s not there. But don’t throw the baby out with the dishwater just yet. Be sure of yourself and of him. Explore. Make sure you give it a chance. Ask yourself these questions and formulate the answers that will satisfy YOU.

    There is no “nice” way of going about this, but think it through and talk it out before you do. He sounds like he is worth it even if he is not for you.

    Wishing you all the very best in whatever you decide Shopa, I know it’s not an easy thing :)

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