Her & Marriage…..

She really wants to get married; soon!

She is well educated, smart and very pretty. What;s bothering is that suddenly she turned out to be this girl who would try anything and everything for the sake of getting married. Few weeks back, I asked why does she feel like she “needs” to be married. One of her answers were that she wants to hang out with her married friends and their husbands!

Tonight, she asked me how can she make a certain person fall for her. “If I knew how, you would probably not see me sitting next you right now”, I replied. She doesn’t know how he looks like, where he works, what school he went to, or anything else. All she was told was his name and that he owns his own company and that he would make a good match; and I thought men were the ones to look for girls not the other way around.

Why would one want to get married? I still cannot understand.

PS: He is confusing me.

10 Responses to “Her & Marriage.....”


  1. 1 Laialy_q8 Nov 10th, 2007 at 12:28 am

    Some girls long for marriage and others long for something else
    I am in the else category

  2. 2 كله مطقوق Nov 10th, 2007 at 1:05 am

    why would one not want to get married?

    whats strange in it that u dont understand?

    its good , especially if the guy owns his own company a porsche a house can take you every year on a vacation

  3. 3 Jacqui Nov 10th, 2007 at 1:16 am

    What would you say about this girl who wants to marry the love of her life, “the one”, and to surprise her he went behind her back and told his parents all about her and stuff, and that he wants her, little did he know is that they would say no.

    No because she was his gf before being his wife.

    What should she do?

  4. 4 Blue Dress Nov 10th, 2007 at 1:46 am

    Thats not a question :)

  5. 5 chikapappi Nov 10th, 2007 at 2:26 am

    Hmm.. “security” on all levels! It’s that feeling of being “owned” by a man is what makes me want to get married & the fact that I need a baby girl!

  6. 6 Touché Nov 10th, 2007 at 4:58 am

    Why!!

    Because you need a witness to your life’s ups and downs.
    Because you need that feeling that if we weren’t a couple, you wouldn’t be as happy, as satisfied and as complete as you are.

  7. 7 3baid Nov 10th, 2007 at 5:19 am

    “All she was told was his name”

    This is what I’m talking about! :O Guys, if you wish to live, I suggest changing your names as soon you get the chance! @_@

  8. 8 jashanmal Nov 10th, 2007 at 11:46 am

    she wants to get married so that she could hang out with her married friends and their husbands?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    and they say that divorce rate in kuwait has reached an epidemic proportion!! geee I wonder why?

  9. 9 Ms. Baker Nov 11th, 2007 at 7:14 pm

    People get married for all sorts of reasons these days. Most of them have nothing to do with love, respect or caring for the soul of someone, but for egotistical and shallow ones that seem to fulfill some sort of ego need: ” Oh I married a lawyer, Oh I married a doctor, Oh I married a Hayfa Wahbe lookalike who is 15 years younger, Oh, I married the guy who owns his company and drives a porsche”…

    Or: its time to settle down and enter married life. Whatever that entails or means. Find a candidate and get the job done.

    I wish I had a good and certain or uplifting answer for you regarding marriage but I don’t. I just think people these days especially in our country slip into and out of it for all sorts of reasons that have nothing to do with anything except convenience and timing.

    I don’t know whether I should be really sad this is so or whether I should be jaded enough to forget feeling sad and just accept it and move on…

  10. 10 Ra-1 Nov 12th, 2007 at 9:37 am

    “How can she make a certain person fall for her?”
    Most girls around us are doing that! So I guess its not a hard thing to do :p

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