Losing a so-called friend or losing a pair of earring that you loved so much?
The Friend: We have many other friends and yet we are destined to meet many more. Still, it hurts. Doesn’t matter how short the period you’ve known them; they’ll always take a big part in your heart and you feel sad and wish things didn’t go wrong.
The Earrings: You loved them. Spent a fortune on them. Waited days until you got them delivered to you. Wore them for special occasions and got many complements on them; some friends even tried stealing them from you. They were your favorite. They are irreplaceable.
So losing which one should make me feel worse?
You wear earnings?
well, although I love accessories & I am picky, I’d still go for losing a friend - it’s hard putting your emotions & self into this relation to get to know a person then things go down the drain.. humnan beings are more valuable than a pair of earrings
انا خسرت مئات الأصدقاء و لم اتأثر
و لكني ضيعت ساعتي اليوليوس ناردن قبل فترة و لا زلت مو قادر أتذكر هالشي من الحرة و الندم
since the friend is labeled as “so-called” then I’d go for the friend..
Losing a “so-called” friend isn’t a big deal. Losing ur favorite earnings, now that’s tragic.
Purg,
why? Do I not look like the earning girl material?
chika,
but sometimes this human treats you in a way that you’d chose losing them over an earning
مطقوق،
ماظنتي راح أنسى إني ضيعت هالإيرينغس
confashion,
ok!
Shoush,
Ok!
I hope I loose neither :s
You did not get it ;p
Friend obviously.
Earrings come and go.
Money comes and goes.
All this material come and go.
Memories do not come & go.
Friendship does not come and go.
CORRECTION!
Friend obviously.
Earrings come and go.
Money comes and goes.
All things material come and go.
Memories do not come & go.
Friendship does not come and go.
I guess thats too materialistic…
you can wish that those “so-called” friends wouldv’e been “true” friends instead of wishing to get back your precious earrings .. which you can easily get in another shopping trip
I forgot to mention;
True friends are Priceless unlike any other material thing people wear to “grap attention” for winning another “so-called” friends
Laialy,
that would be a perfect world.
Purg,
now I get it! I can’t spell what to do!
DR,
but in reality, friendship does come and go! You tell me how many friends have you lost along the way? Memories? I had memories with my earrings.
Blackened Mind,
Hmmm! Ok!
The earrings.
Cuz I just lost a friend and realized ina some ppl r so not worth 3awar il galb. No matter how much you give them ma ibayen ib 3ainhum.
Ive lost 1 or 2…3? …im not joking….ive had major conflicts with a little more….but i went back and patched things up with each and everyone of them although i was the one who was wronged and i really didnt have to do anything. They probably think that i was apologising. I dont care. Just as long as there are no hard feelings cuz i know ina ildinya ma tiswa.
Who cares who was right and who was wrong?
Who cares who disrepected me for a millisecond?
At the end of the day was really worth it?
Why should we keep such negativity and excess baggage in our lives?
Im sure u have great memories looking gorgeous wearing ur favourite earrings. Im sure u have the photos to prove it.
But did ur earrings ever take u out to dinner when u were depressed?
Did ur earrings ever chat on the phone with u trying to solve all ur itsy bitsy problems?
Did they support you? Make you laugh? Act goofy with u? Act crazy?
Im sure ull retaliate by saying: No, but my earrings never hurt me either.
(Technically, not true, even the best earrings hurt if u wear them for a long time or when u go to sleep with them on. lol lol lol lol)
Anyway…..let me say it in engineer langauge ;P
True…friends may love and they may hurt us….
But…
1L of “goodness”, weighs much more than 1L of “hurtfulness”.
earrings!
I’m pretty passionate about earings so0 ofcourse i won’t spare them for anything, but friends i have lost alot among the years so0 it stopped making any difference !
Hola …
Nice Q .. If a friend is a “So called” one why bother whether i lose him/her in this case my earing are crucial