“Don’t Say He’s Just a Friend”

How do one differentiate between a nice friend-to-friend talk and flirt?

I keep wondering, is he flirting with her? or is he just being extremely friendly?
Is there flirt standards out there that I need to look at? I am really confused.

An American friend is trying to convince me that a single guy can’t be friends with a single girl. Her theory is, “there will always be physical attraction between them; and if it’s not there then he is either gay or in a relationship”. I disagreed thinking I have many many guy friends that I am not interested in them and I am 100% sure they are not into me.

Come to think of it, few of my friends are the ones who are single and straight.

P.S.: It’s a small small world after all.

10 Responses to “"Don't Say He's Just a Friend"”


  1. 1 Purgatory72 Apr 25th, 2007 at 12:11 am

    I have many female friends and I am not attracted nor intersted in them at all.

  2. 2 shopa Apr 25th, 2007 at 6:37 am

    gay?

  3. 3 Purgatory72 Apr 25th, 2007 at 11:36 am

    I knew you were going to say that ;p

    No I am difficult to please, do not get attracted to any woman.

  4. 4 Delicately Realistic Apr 25th, 2007 at 1:30 pm

    I agree with ur friend….that theory is correct most times….BUT there also some exceptions to that rule….u can sometimes rarely be single and have a single friend where both of u have no feelings for each other. A rare thing my dear.

  5. 5 Intlxpatr Apr 25th, 2007 at 7:35 pm

    Or you can have sort of feelings, mild feelings, and just mildly enjoy the feelings and do nothing about them because it’s not that compelling. And you know friendships can be more intense some times than others. Yes, you can be friends for a long long time, and keep all the other stuff under control.

  6. 6 Flamingoliya Apr 25th, 2007 at 10:34 pm

    hmmmmm

  7. 7 kila_ma6goog Apr 27th, 2007 at 1:52 pm

    i second ur americano friend

  8. 8 Bon Chic Bon Apr 28th, 2007 at 8:01 am

    Like I said before, you need to watch “When Harry Met Sally”. ;)

    Single guys and girls cant be friends.

  9. 9 ~ Sweeety ~ Apr 29th, 2007 at 11:16 pm

    I agree with ur American friend, most of the time single guys and single girls starts as friends but ends something else !

  10. 10 Alia May 1st, 2007 at 8:22 pm

    I’m thinking of your friend’s theory .. & i really can’t decide weather I agree or disagree with her … sij madri

    bas I think that it’s not true .. unless we’re animals here

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