Shopaholic Q8eya

A Repost.

Going back to the “confusing” subject of relationships and spinning away from all the political talk. In a relationship, why do we consider ourselves “victims”? Why do we think that it’s the other person’s fault? We are always the “good” ones & they are the “bad” ones.

When things go wrong, we focus on how we treated them really good while in return they did us bad. I bet they think exactly the same. People need to take a deeper look. Little meaningless things we say can sometimes hurt others. Being in a relationship is a loop that keeps going. She treated you badly because you did me bad. I was treated this way because I did it to him although he treated me good. He, too, was treated badly because once he did it to her; and it keeps going & going & going.

In relationships, there’s no good & bad. We all possess angels and demons within ourselves, we just don’t realize it. We are both the victim and the perpetrator.