“HE” Asks “Heart or Mind”

He wanted me to write a post asking this:

Should one follow his heart, or mind?

Since it differs from one case to another, I asked him to elaborate further. He didn’t want to.

For whatever in his mind, should he follow his heart or mind?

36 Responses to “"HE" Asks "Heart or Mind"”


  1. 1 LaiaLy_q8 Oct 30th, 2006 at 8:10 am

    it can’t be one or the other, it has to be both. as long as the heart and mind are in the same body they must act as one.

  2. 2 Yazeed Oct 30th, 2006 at 8:45 am

    i cant really answer if its one or another, sometimes it has to be the one or the other, i’ve been through a couple of those situations, sometimes i went with my heart, sometimes with my mind
    but when they both meet, its all good :)
    *hi, “he” :) *

  3. 3 Cuteberry Oct 30th, 2006 at 9:10 am

    “Mind”

    If the “mind” approves the “heart” choices, then go with the heart.

    If the “mind” disagree with whatever heart’s action, then the hell with the heart.

    What “Mind” wants, “Mind” gets!

  4. 4 Papillona ® Oct 30th, 2006 at 9:31 am

    Follow your heart
    but before that you should ask your Mind’s permission ;-)
    ba3dain waq3eeha 3ind il wazeer

    miss you ;*

  5. 5 Alia Oct 30th, 2006 at 10:26 am

    I say it depends on the situation
    bas 3omoman .. you have to use both .. one can ruin your life

  6. 6 3aSer_Koktail Oct 30th, 2006 at 1:35 pm

    We lov what the heart say’s!!
    We want what the heart say’s !!
    But we should do what the mind point toward!!
    In the end you should “Just do the DO!”

  7. 7 Baroque Oct 30th, 2006 at 3:51 pm

    i say he should just go commit suicide..

    did i mention that i don’t like him?

    loool kayfeee and who is he again?

  8. 8 Shopaholic Q8eya Oct 30th, 2006 at 4:47 pm

    I’d say choose whichever has ME

  9. 9 Purgatory Oct 30th, 2006 at 6:26 pm

    follow your stomach and stop messing with other guys.

  10. 10 Beyond Q8iya Oct 30th, 2006 at 10:16 pm

    Mind.. i used this question once on someone.. i had to choose between two people, one my heart wanted and one my mind knew was right, i choose heart and regretted it.. because mind uses logic, while the heart follows its desires, at least when u have a change of heart on what you made your mind up about you will go back and find that you had reason

  11. 11 Dr.Lost Oct 31st, 2006 at 12:16 am

    mind MIND fu***** MIND !!! when will ppl get that love doesnt exist for long?? aaaaaaghhhhh !! (sorry im having male p.m.s ;p

  12. 12 Delicately Realistic Oct 31st, 2006 at 1:49 am

    I wish we could only use HEART.

    Doesnt work that way im afraid.

    Ohhh.

  13. 13 MSB Oct 31st, 2006 at 2:30 am

    Mind.. the heart is easily swayed and mislead. When it’s ‘right’ the mind will accept it. The only time the mind won’t accept it is when it’s ILLOGICAL.

    So if it seems like a bad idea, it probably is.

  14. 14 Beyond Q8iya Oct 31st, 2006 at 2:31 am

    btw i love ur theme

  15. 15 me Oct 31st, 2006 at 3:53 am

    mind controls r body…signals from the brain guid all other parts..

    its cool 2 follow ur heart alone…but in the long run the mind will eventually win..

    so min el bidaya 7′aleeha mind wirta7ay;)

  16. 16 Spontaneousnessity Oct 31st, 2006 at 1:55 pm

    wouldn’t you wonder if you followed your heart that maybe one day “HE” will stop following his?

    here’s how I see it:
    Following your heart means you’ll be very dramatic, every emotional, very lovesick, very needy, very whiney, very insecure,.. the list goes on.

    Follow your mind, so that when he follows his heart you’re luck just rolled a hard 8 =} if he decides to quit following then well you’re on the safe side =}

    *hug*

  17. 17 Papillona ® Oct 31st, 2006 at 2:24 pm

    off topic: lost ramadan fat
    gilt abashrich :*

    YAY!

  18. 18 D Oct 31st, 2006 at 3:49 pm

    mind. guys’ intuition r zift fa its useless to follow the heart

  19. 19 Brava Valentia Oct 31st, 2006 at 4:50 pm

    sponta

    you’re maturing!!! no seriously!

    oh and i second what you said =)

  20. 20 Shopaholic Q8eya Oct 31st, 2006 at 5:27 pm

    It’s funny how all of you guys are assuming it’s about LOVE!

    hehehe I don’t it’s the case here.

  21. 21 Baroque Oct 31st, 2006 at 6:03 pm

    hmm tell him to be under the next bus ;D

    that will cure all those vague posts, and bring back those lovely looong posts we used to read ;p

  22. 22 Shopaholic Q8eya Oct 31st, 2006 at 6:13 pm

    Papi,
    YOU GO GIRL ;* lol Funny how I lost weight during Ramadan and now I am gaining!

    baroque,
    LOL why do you not like “HIM”? Do you know who is he anyways?

    everyone else,
    Thanks for the comments ;*

  23. 23 Flamingoliya Oct 31st, 2006 at 7:18 pm

    not love? it’s true that i haven’t participated in the answers.. but 3assabt! :P you got me thinking alot hehe

  24. 24 Shopaholic Q8eya Oct 31st, 2006 at 7:47 pm

    flam,
    well he didn’r really explain more… it might be love, BUT I have a feeling it’s not.

    Maybe he should tell us what’s in his mind.

  25. 25 MiYaFuSHi Oct 31st, 2006 at 9:01 pm

    If only people knew the answer to that…

  26. 26 Brava Valentia Oct 31st, 2006 at 9:59 pm

    coming to read miya’s comment

    i think whats more important if you’re able to go with what you’re mind tells you… me and my mind, sometimes we hate eachother ;-p

  27. 27 LinG-BLinG Nov 1st, 2006 at 1:59 am

    I always believe its the Mind .. after following ur heart.
    1st follow ur heart .. then when u do ur choice .. start thinking with ur mind.

  28. 28 error Nov 1st, 2006 at 2:40 am

    let him use his balls

  29. 29 dishevelled Nov 1st, 2006 at 6:17 pm

    Heart…

    The mind is effected by everything we see and hear, so it’s not only his voice, but everyone and everything around him. Mindsets change as people change and time changes.

    Wispers of the heart are what you really want regardless of whatever and whoever no matter how much you deny it. Maybe what your heart is set on will change, but its a change from you, not affected by others. Following your heart means you’ll live with no regret or what might have been

    Being brave or right doesn’t necessarily mean go with your mind or logic or whats common, it’s fighting for what you really are and what you really beleive in, what you want regardless of what others think. If it’s not common, then be the change you want to see in the world…someday it will be considered “right”

  30. 30 Jelly Belly Nov 2nd, 2006 at 12:46 am

    I vote for the mind although 90% of the time I go with what my heart desires :/

  31. 31 fatani Nov 2nd, 2006 at 5:47 pm

    www.bloggerScrew the heart.

    If the mind is telling you the person your heart wants is “no good” then screw them and just know you have a void to fill.

  32. 32 Spontaneousnessity Nov 3rd, 2006 at 11:22 pm

    oh then what could “HE” asks “Heart or Mind” be about? don’t say transplant!

  33. 33 White Wings Nov 4th, 2006 at 3:58 pm

    go with the mind if you want to be safe and with the heart if you want to take a chance
    and taking chances is what life is all about :)

  34. 34 BB Nov 5th, 2006 at 11:42 pm

    missed you ,, and we MUST follow our mind lakin the heart is sometimes stronger.

    when i say the heart i mean ” emotions, desire, lust and the one and only.. the devil “

  35. 35 um-miT3ib Nov 6th, 2006 at 1:53 am

    combination of both

  36. 36 Peaceful Mind Nov 6th, 2006 at 5:58 am

    follow your heart when there are feelings or emotions for people who loves you… and follow ur mind in work for example or the business.

    well.. ana agol chethy cuz sometimes when i fallow my mind at7asaf waiddd! but when i fallow my heart aqal ma feha.. i will think ena i did what i really wanted,i’m considering it, like a destiny.

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