Question

How do you ask your man to wear protection?

And please, not in the mood to hear about being honest and open to talk about it.

Also, a friend is looking for a place that she can practice boxing. Do you guys know of any place that does boxing for girls?

24 Responses to “Question”


  1. 1 shosho Nov 24th, 2005 at 6:06 pm

    Hypnotize him and when he wakes up tell him the protection fairy placed it there.

    Boxing - I’m not sure if flex offer it, but better ask.

    So you intend to box him if he refused to wear protection ;P

  2. 2 Purgatory72 Nov 24th, 2005 at 6:11 pm

    The guy has to wear protection because his nuts will be hit?

  3. 3 Anonymous Nov 24th, 2005 at 6:14 pm

    Well,

    Here is Cosmo’s answer:
    HOW TO GET YOUR MAN TO ACTUALLY WEAR ONE

    In a perfect hookup world, your guy would’ve already ran to the store to pick up condoms without your even asking. But the truth is, most men require a little prodding. “You need to be direct but also mention what’s in it for him,” says sex therapist Louanne Cole Weston, PhD. “Tell him that you want to be less inhibited in bed, which will get his mind racing. But say that in order for you to enjoy yourself, he’ll have to put one on.”

    Ideally, this convo should take place before you get naked, but if it happens in the heat of the moment, don’t hesitate and give him the chance to sway you out of it; switch his focus by kissing him all over his bod and running your hands south of his border. By the time you start rolling one on, he’ll already be at full-mast and so deliriously aroused, he won’t turn down protected sex. Booty tip: Always have your own condom stash on hand so he can’t pull the excuse “I don’t have any, and it’s too late to go to the store.”

    HOW TO SEXILY PUT IN ON

    With the right moves, you can make the roll-on a sizzling foreplay maneuver. First, make sure the reservoir tip is facing up so you don’t put on the condom inside out (if you accidentally do, throw the condom away and use a new one). Then start by gently pinching about half an inch at the top and unrolling the condom down to the base of his shaft, smoothing out any air bubbles as you go along. “Keep massaging his testicles and perineum after the condom is on,” says Kerner. You can also add a few drops of lube and give him a couple slick strokes that’ll take his mind off wearing a rubber.
    _________________________________
    And here is mine:
    Tell him your fantasy is having 12 kids and you want his help, but tell him if he is not ready yet we need to use condoms. LOL

  4. 4 Unknown Entity Nov 24th, 2005 at 6:43 pm

    Definitely… just put it on him yourself and do it in a way he won’t notice to much till it’s done. Like, lots of tongue action.

    Question: Protection from what specifically? If it’s just pregnancy, use a spermicide insert and avoid the issue. Also, there are a couple versions of female condoms out there if you can get ahold of them.

  5. 5 Anonymous Nov 24th, 2005 at 7:59 pm

    Just ask like it was totally natural (which it should be).
    In my mind it’s weirder to do it withOUT protection. (Unless you’re married obviously)

  6. 6 hibbalicious Nov 24th, 2005 at 10:50 pm

    shopa, i was just wondering the same thing myself, i think sometimes its ok to use protection in secret u no

    its weird to bring the issue of contraception about, i dono weird

  7. 7 charisma Nov 25th, 2005 at 12:24 am

    …..

  8. 8 '' Judy Abbott '' Nov 25th, 2005 at 1:09 am

    you mean sunblock?

    boxing kil mokan bil kuwait feeh gym they have boxing for girls!!!!!
    check palms and that dancing place in share3 fahad al salem they have boxing too

  9. 9 Q84eva Nov 25th, 2005 at 1:47 pm

    tell him: if u want this do that, he will wear it right away

  10. 10 Purgatory72 Nov 25th, 2005 at 3:59 pm

    sunblock says the psycho

  11. 11 Delicately Realistic Nov 25th, 2005 at 4:02 pm

    Can you please use protection?

    Its not honesty, but I dont c any other way u can ask it.

  12. 12 Anonymous Nov 25th, 2005 at 8:02 pm

    protection for what !!!!!!!!!!!!!

  13. 13 tears Nov 25th, 2005 at 11:30 pm

    sorry can’t help u there :) i dont live in Q8 so i dont know where u can go get boxing classes

  14. 14 Shopaholic Q8eya Nov 25th, 2005 at 11:35 pm

    Purg,
    YES!

    Guys, we are looking for actual boxing place not like kickboxing lessons that is offered in most gyms.

    I still have no clue on how to ask a guy to use protection.

  15. 15 Anonymous Nov 25th, 2005 at 11:53 pm

    ya3nyyy use protection 3ashan AIDS ya3ne ? wela 3ashan shino hehe a7es wayd mala ma3naa el question oo 7adaa sahel ya7mar elbes condom wayd sahla hehe mesta7ya ?? lool u make sex ma3aah oo mesta7ya etgoleen elbes condom ??

  16. 16 Anonymous Nov 27th, 2005 at 10:05 pm

    You don’s ask him to wear protection. You ask:

    “Will you buy the condoms or should I?”

    or

    “Have you bought the condoms already?

    or

    “Did you buy enough condoms?”

    or

    “I think it’s time you put on a condom.”

    Unless he’s a caveman, this shouldn’t be embarassing at all.

    Its the 21st century after all.
    Having genital herpes or something worse would be much mor embarassing…

  17. 17 Anonymous Nov 27th, 2005 at 10:08 pm

    ps:

    and if he starts getting defensive and says “Don’t you trust me?” just say “I trust you, but I don’t trust the other girls you had sex with in the past.”

  18. 18 Shopaholic Q8eya Nov 27th, 2005 at 11:06 pm

    anonymous 1,
    FYI, Protection is used for many things other than AIDS and since this question “malah ma3naa” I wonder why you took the time to write this comment!

    anonymous 2,
    Thanks! I like the “will you buy the condoms or should I” one. I will pass them to my friend.

  19. 19 Anonymous Nov 28th, 2005 at 1:45 pm

    heheh eee lana wayd esh mazzait entay moo lageta bill share3 oo ba6altay eryolech ! he is ur BF !!

    oo thanee shay ana laman alga mawthoo3 maaay3aajbne akteb oo etha 3jbne makteb shay lana a7eb a3del afkaar gariba ! ana wayd agra mawathe3ech wayd afkar gareba oo moo 6abe3ya fa hal shay ethay3 wagt e3arfeen lazem etshofeen shaglat garebaa etwansech :)
    hehe oo tha7ktny shagla !

    ( What do you do if you started having suspicious that the man you are sleeping with is gay?! )

    hi is man ! entay 3arfteeh ena rayal !

    bas ahwa 3rfach inech not virgin :p

    hehe oo ahwaa masma3 ena entay not virgin :P ahwaa 3araf oo metaked ina entay mo virgin :p oo 3endenaa bill q8 eleee moo virgin wayd wayd arda min el gay ! lana ahwa rayaal matgdreen etgoleen la bas e7na negdar engool entay moo virgin hehehe tegdreen etgoleen ena hatha moo virgin :P heheh mafakrtay chethe hathaa mama el tafkeerel sa7 ;)

    oo hathaa ele shawagnee khalanee akteb kill hatha oo inshallah maatms7ena :)

  20. 20 Shopaholic Q8eya Nov 29th, 2005 at 9:34 am

    Dear anonymous,
    I reread what you wrote many times yet I failed to understand your point.
    I am sorry if my posts are “wierd” for you, although I don’t see what do you mean by “wierd”!

    It seems that we are not communicating on the same level. Thanks for your comment though.

  21. 21 Anonymous Dec 4th, 2005 at 12:03 pm

    emmm.. i think i’m lost here…i only have one question… r u a muslim shopaholic???

  22. 22 Shopaholic Q8eya Dec 4th, 2005 at 2:59 pm

    and how is religion related to this post?!

  23. 23 Anonymous Dec 6th, 2005 at 8:42 am

    Well if u’r worrying about STDs then ur either not married to the guy ur sleeping with (which is 7aram if ur muslim) or ur husband has a problem with his hygiene!!

  24. 24 Anonymous Dec 16th, 2005 at 3:51 pm

    exactly!! that is zina!!!

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